I’ve Known Wolves Like This All My Life
Beware of false prophets, which come to you in
sheep's clothing,
but inwardly they are ravening wolves. (Matthew 7.15, KJV)
The last time I saw Harry Bussman was in the 1970’s. I thanked him for the many fond memories my sister and I had as kids riding the
Mr. Bussman owned the largest trucking company in
During the 1950’s I met many “men of means” like Mr. Bussman with whom my father interacted. He also dealt with the Teamster Union when Jimmie Hoffa really could shut down America; and lunched sometimes with men in oddly loose fitting suits identified to me only as ‘business associates’. Every Christmas we kids were inundated with small gifts from these associates. Every two years we got a new-to-us automobile courtesy of Mr. Bussman – the last of which I picked-out new off a showroom floor.
In the course of all this the owner of another trucking business told me confidentially some things he wanted me to know about my father. To paraphrase words heard over 60 years ago: “Anything given to Phil Lewis was not to buy him or influence business, because nothing could. Your father is the only honest man in the trucking business in
Over time and various circumstances among the many things my father told me were truths about the Mr. Bussmans and the Union leaders and the ‘associates’ of the world. It’s been a long time, but this is how I assimilated his warnings:
These men will dine you, and wile you, and pull
you under the spell of their charisma.
Such people possess an innate ability to find both what they can get out
of you -- and where lay your weaknesses to get it. Never trust them completely; always get it in
writing. They will talk of loyalty, but
demand fidelity. You will hear the truth
only where it serves them. Assume any
morality exhibited is based on self-preservation. When they discern there is nothing more to
gain from you, you will be discarded.
Over my now 76 years I have met and observed a lot of wolves my father warned me about, and have come to know what to expect when I see one. That is why nothing surprised me when one of those wolves came down an escalator and immediately began to beguile and then discard all he touched. I’ve known wolves like this all my life.
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